when people think of doing meditation they always think of spending hours in a peaceful & isolated space, chanting some mantra or doing some special things/postures. But meditation is far easy ten we think. specially when you begin to add more mindfulness into your life—when you stop and smell
the roses, so to speak—you'll find that the stress of the future and the
regrets of the past simply melt away. It’s a practice, to be sure. But it can
be simple, and automatic, and oh-so beautiful.
The trick is to do one
thing a day with absolute mindfulness. Dwell completely in that moment. Feel
everything, every physical sensation, and every subtle emotion that swells up
inside. Breathe slowly, and smile at the stillness. And once you’ve mastered
one thing, add another, and another ...
Here are 11 of my
favorite things to do mindfully:
1. Listen to music.
Try to hear every
instrument in the band. Separate the lyrics from the melody—listen to something
instrumental, if you can. Sing along, and feel your body vibrate with the hum
of sound.
2. Drink tea. Or coffee. Or hot water. Or whatever.
I imagine that, like me,
you drink something every morning. Instead of just tossing it down like a shot
at the bar, drink it slowly. Dedicate 5 minutes every morning to this act alone.
Close your eyes, and feel the warm liquid roll over your tongue. Enjoy it –
right now, this tea is all that matters!
3. Do yoga.
The practice alone will
bring about a beautiful sense of presence in your life. Even one class or hour of home-practice a week is great!
4. Drive to work.
Your morning commute can
be spent in absolute mindfulness. Turn off the loud music, tone down your road
rage, and enjoy the quiet time to yourself.
5. Take a walk.
A slow one. Like, really
slow. Inhale and lift your foot, exhale and plant it. Repeat.
6. Create art.
The practice of
painting, or drawing, or sewing, or gluing magazine strips to paper is
incredibly meditative. Set aside a bit of time for art, and as you work, make
sure that you’re truly there with your project.
7. Journal.
Each morning, spill out
a page of junk that’s been on your mind. Notice the pressure of the pen on the
paper. The sound of the tip scraping along the page. The way the ink bleeds.
After writing for a bit about your day, and your shopping lists, and the cute
boy in yoga class, you’ll find that you don’t have anything left to write. This
is when you take a deep breath, and allow mindfulness to permeate. Go deeper.
Soon, you’ll be writing with complete presence, as if another voice is writing
through you.
8. Cook.
This is one of my
favorites. Cooking can be an incredibly powerful act of meditation. Grind your
own spices, chop vegetables with a smile, and put love into your pot.
9. Eat.
Not only is eating
mindfully a simple and delightful act, but it’s much healthier than shoveling
food down while you’re running to your next meeting. Take time to feel the
temperature of your food with your fingers, feel the texture, smell all of the
ingredients. Be there with your food before you eat.
10. Give a massage.
Touch is a powerful
thing. For a moment, give all of yourself to someone in the act of massage. Be
there with them: receptive, open, and loving.
11. Breathe.
The easiest of all! Breathing truly is the difference between
feeling anxious and feeling relaxed. Try adding a few rounds of 4, 4, 8 count breath into your daily routine. Inhale for 4
counts, retain for 4 counts, and exhale for 8. Close your eyes. Be slow.
Repeat.