Who Are You?
1. Who are you What is the one thing that makes
you special and unique?
There is no other person on this planet quite
exactly like you. For just a moment, quit focusing on what you are not, what
you wish to be, or what others expect from you and find
out what is the one thing you already have that makes you special. Identify your “special”-nesses, acknowledge it, respect
it and make it central to how you carry yourself.
2. How do people perceive you?
Do people see you for the special person that you
are? Do they appreciate your unique abilities? If not, what is the reason? How
can you change it?
Maybe a quote by Henry Longfellow — “We
judge ourselves by what we feel capable of doing, while others judge us by what
we have already done.” — has the answer? How can you bridge the gap
between what you are uniquely capable of being and the person that you
currently are?
3. If money was not a constraint, what would you
be doing with your time?
Write a book? Become a singer? Grow a beautiful
garden? Spend more time with your family? Take your time. Feel free to
daydream. Once you have the vision in your mind, think of what is the one thing
you can do now to move just one step closer to that vision. When you have a
vision and start taking action, the universe will conspire to make it a
reality.
4. What do you do for a living?
There is nothing deep about this question. It
really is as simple as it sounds. If your answer matches (or will lead you
towards) what you answered to the previous question, you are on the right
track. If answered “Become a writer” above and “I am an engineer” to this one,
you need to figure out how bridge the two. Maybe you can start a tech blog. Or
a series of (blockbuster) books about the adventurous engineer or the vampire
engineer. Whatever. Figure it out.
5. What are you grateful for?
How long did you have to think to answer that
question? If you answer was not immediate – if the images of your family and
friends, your health, your ability to see, hear, walk and talk did not come to
your mind instantly, you should start looking into developing an attitude of
gratitude. Remember the quote – “I cried because I had no shoes until I met a
man who had no feet.”